Mr. Right vs Mr. Right Now

What’s the real difference between Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now?

Over the years, I’ve met plenty of Mr. Right Nows—men who are perfect for the moment, but not necessarily for the long haul. They’re fun, charming, and they often say all the right things. Sometimes, they even feel like they could be “the one.” But when I dig deeper, I realize I’m making small sacrifices in what I truly want in a partner, just to avoid being alone.

Mr. Right Now is like a life experience—a stepping stone on the way to Mr. Right. And let’s be honest, for many of us, life feels like it’s full of Mr. Right Nows.

There are even levels of Mr. Right Now:

• The guy you hang on to just so you don’t have to go to a movie alone.

• The one you attempt a short-term relationship with, knowing deep down it won’t last because he’s simply not Mr. Right.

While the romantic in me is still holding out hope for Mr. Right, I can admit that Mr. Right Now can be... fun. He keeps life interesting, even if he’s not the endgame.