Men Can Be So Selfish!

This isn’t advice.
This isn’t a love story.
This is a full-on rant from a woman who is tired.

Tired of being told to play the role—
Be mysterious. Be demure. Be “ladylike.”
Play hard to get so maybe he’ll actually notice you.

Meanwhile, he’s out there doing whatever he wants—hanging out with friends, spending time with family, swiping through dating apps, or changing his profile picture like it’s a job. And you? You’re stuck analyzing every little thing, wondering where you stand, waiting for him to maybe make you feel seen.

I get it—testosterone, independence, blah blah blah.
But let’s be real… it’s not a hormone thing. It’s a respect thing.

All I’m Asking For Is Honesty

If you’re seeing someone else, just say it.
If your night is booked with family or friends, I’ll respect that—just don’t ghost me or feed me crumbs of attention while pretending you’re “busy.”

Because here’s the thing:
If you’re truly interested in someone, you make time. You prioritize them. You don’t make them feel like a backup plan or an option.

Women—especially good women—deserve clarity.
We deserve honesty.
We deserve to feel like we matter.

Stop Playing with Hearts

And don’t even get me started on online dating.
You’re changing your default photo every other day and suddenly disappearing off the face of the Earth?
Let me guess—you’re on a date with someone else.
Cool. Just own it. Don’t lead someone on when you’re still playing the field.

Know Your Worth, Ladies

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again:
Every woman has worth.
And a good woman deserves more than mixed signals and last-minute texts.

So for the love of all that is sacred, keep your one-eyed monsters in check, gentlemen.
And if you're not ready for something real?
Don’t waste our time.