I do not believe in soulmates. I believe there are several people you could build a real connection with if both people are choosing each other and putting in effort. Divorce changed how I see love, and dating again has shown me something else too. When I stop attaching expectations to strangers, my anxiety drops. When I let men pursue, the intent feels different. And when I focus on choice instead of destiny, the whole process feels lighter, calmer, and honestly, more exciting.