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January 30, 2026

Letter to My Exes and Whoever’s Next

January 30, 2026/ Valerie Rivera
Letter to My Exes and Whoever’s Next

A letter to the Teacher who reminded me what peace feels like, the Scientist who taught me what I will never carry again, and the man who has not met me yet. I lost myself, I found myself, and I will not abandon her again. Whoever is next will get the best version of me, and it is going to be a great adventure.

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Love is a battlefield and without the right guidance, you'll repeat the same mistakes. Helping people become more self aware so they find the right partner for themselves is what I love. Val's Bytes is a place where I share my thoughts on relationships with a hint of bubbly positivity. Join me each week as I set you free from your love concerns by giving you the answers. 

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